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How To Win Your Prospects Over

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Give more in value than you take in payment Give more in value than you take in payment.

Sponsoring new people in to your network marketing opportunity is a process that takes time. Very seldom do you meet someone who joins your team the same day you introduce him or her to your business. For example, I am a person who researches a business opportunity I am interested in for several months before I join.

Given the fact, that it may take several months before your prospect joins your team, and with the competition as tough as it is in the network marketing industry, you need to stand out from the crowd.

Be different…

I may sound like a broken record, but I say it again…

People will do business with and refer business to those people they know, like and trust.

One way of gaining people’s trust is by giving them value and by making them feel like they are the most important person in the world to you.

“Your true worth is determined by how much more you give in value than you take in payment.”
(The Law of Value, page 29, The Go-Giver.)

When I was looking into becoming a rep for my company, I was approached by several people I knew. A couple of them I have known for years. I like and trust all of them.

But they made several mistakes in trying to recruit me.

1) They used the “Hit and Run” approach, which means, they hit me up with the opportunity and then ran and waited for my reaction.

2) They didn’t follow up with me. None of them did.

I still wanted to get involved with that company, because I could see the benefits of the product and I knew I would have a lot of fun with it. But now I had a problem. Whom would I choose as my sponsor? I wanted to make sure I joined someone who cared about me. Someone who was plugged in to the company training and was committed to their business. Someone who would be there to train me and show me the ropes.

Luckily, another person entered the playing field, a complete stranger.

He introduced me to the company and product the same way those other people did, by sending me a greeting card that included a DVD about the opportunity.

But, … here’s the BIG difference … He kept in touch and followed up with me.

He sent me another card and then called to introduce himself.

He kept following up with me. He even sent me brownies for my birthday. A month later he sent me a magazine about the company … which by the way, I read cover to cover the day I received it.

Then again a month later he sent me a book about network marketing.

He didn’t have to do all this. I had already told him that I was going to join him.

And besides … He already had me at the brownies =) I could tell then that he really genuinely cared about ME as a person. (And yes, I felt a bit guilty too.)

Here is my point , …. give more in value than you take in payment.

Make your prospect feel special. Remember when you were dating your husband or your wife? You brought flowers. You went out to dinner. You watched a movie together.

Well, prospecting is a lot like dating.

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Hey Ilka,

“Give more in value than you take in payment” – I love that!

More people need to read this and learn the true “secret” to a successful business in this industry.

Great Post.
.-= Wayne Vassell´s last blog ..MLM Success Training – Its Not What Happens, It Is How You Set Your Sail! =-.

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Ilka Flood Reply:

Hi Wayne,

Wow! That was a fast comment! I just posted it seconds earlier. You must have taken lessons from our ‘Comment Ninja.’

Thanks for coming by and leaving me your thoughts!

Yep, it’s all about “GIVING.”

Have an awesome evening!

Ilka

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Hey Ilka,

Those brownies sure do look good. :)

Thanks for sharing this story with us. Some folks get so wrapped up in building their business that they forget to give out.

Give, give, and give some more. Now, I don’t know if I would have eaten the brownies. Where they fresh when you received them?

Chat with you later…
Josh
.-= Josh Garcia´s last blog ..Are You Developing Your Leadership Skills or Staying Stagnant? =-.

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Ilka Flood Reply:

Hi Josh,

Like I said earlier, …and I really start sounding like a broken record… it IS all about “GIVING.”

Someone once said, “giving starts the receiving process.” The more you GIVE the more you get back.

And, yes, the brownies were fresh and very delicious :)

Enjoy your evening!

Ilka

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Hi Ilka,

This was a great post — it’s called “The Law of Reciprocity”…

When you GIVE first, people feel compelled to pay you back.

I just have one question, though — can’t married couples still date and buy flowers? LOL
.-= Derek Alvarez´s last blog ..My own personal blog evaluation =-.

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Ilka Flood Reply:

Hi Derek,

I absolutely agree with what you said about ‘people feeling compelled to pay you back.’ Very true!

And yes, of course, married couples can still date and buy flowers. Monique is a very lucky woman :)

Enjoy your evening!

Ilka

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Great story! There is a fine line between tormenting someone about joining your business and keeping yourself in the forefront of thier mind. This gentleman you mentioned has it down pat!

I’m not so sure I would have eaten the brownies from a stranger. Last year someone dropped off a case of bottled water on our front porch. I refused to drink it or let Nicholas have it considering my hubs’ occupation. Come to find out it was the neighbor who had left it.

Have a great evening!
Twila
.-= Twila Jacobs´s last blog ..Are You Hitting The Bull’s Eye With Your Target Market On Social Media Sites? =-.

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Ilka Flood Reply:

Hi Twila,

I feel I have to explain the brownie thing. He didn’t bake them himself. Our company has a ‘gift section’ where you can send brownies, other gifts or gift cards with your cards. I’d never eat brownies from a stranger either, LOL.

Funny story about the bottled water. But I really don’t blame you.

Enjoy your evening!

Ilka

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Hi Ilka,

What you get out of anything will be in direct relation to what you put in.

This is exactly what you’re talking about and I Love IT!

Talk to you later,
Jerome Ratliff
.-= Jerome Ratliff´s last blog ..John Maxwell on Leadership =-.

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Ilka Flood Reply:

Hi Jerome,

Absolutely! Very true statement. I used to tell my kids, “garbage in garbage out” when they were watching trash TV.

However, then I realized, although it was very true, it was also very negative. Rather than talking down to them I tried to get them to switch channels.

Always nice to see you here. Have a nice evening!

Ilka

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Hi Ilka,

Great story, great post!

It’s so true, the relationship matters most. Sure it takes time, but it’s time well spent!

Make it a great day!
Susanna
.-= Susanna Hess´s last blog ..I Thought Multi-Tasking Was Good? Not For The Intelligent Network Marketer! =-.

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Hi Susanna,

Great to see you and thanks for your thoughts!

I totally agree … It IS all about relationships.

And nurturing those relationships.

Make it a great day!

Ilka

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Mother always says “you don’t give to get”. So true.

It a universal law, what you genuinely give out will come back to you. Works for good and bad!

Thank you for sharing this with us

Dwayne
.-= Dwayne Huggins´s last blog ..How Do I Set Up A Network Marketing Blog? =-.

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Ilka Flood Reply:

Dwayne,

Your mom is a very smart woman. Keep listening to her.

Thanks for stopping by and leaving your thoughts!

Have a great evening!

Ilka

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