Posted by Ilka Flood | Posted in Perseverance, Success | Posted on 03-05-2010
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If you have been following my blog for a while you may have noticed that I like to tell stories to illustrate a point. Well, here’s another one …
Which Way Is Success?
A man meets a successful person on the road and asks him, “which way is success?”
The successful person speaks no words, he just points to a place off in the distance.
The man, thrilled by the prospect of quick and easy success, rushes off in the direction he was sent to. Suddenly, there comes a loud “SPLAT.” After a while, the man comes limping back, tattered and stunned, assuming he must have misunderstood the message.
Posted by Ilka Flood | Posted in Attitude, Uncategorized | Posted on 30-04-2010
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The other day I read, on one of the many blogs I read on a daily basis, that attitude is not everything.
I was shocked, because to me, it absolutely IS everything. Having the right attitude is a key ingredient not only for building a successful network marketing business, but for anything else in life as well.
But may it be as it may be, even if it isn’t everything it is still 100%.
And I will prove it to you.
What makes up 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%. We always hear people say that they give more than a 100%. Heck, I’ve even said that myself on occasion. But, I will be a lot more careful about that in the future.
And here is why…
Good question! The answer is, actually, quite a bit.
Read on to find out….
A man came across a young boy who happy as could be was shoveling horse manure. There was a big pile of it and the boy would dig up shovel full after shovel full and toss it aside.
“What a stinky job”, the man thought to himself, “who would want to do that?” But the boy seemed to get happier with every load he tossed aside.
Finally the man couldn’t stand it any longer and he asked the boy, “what are you doing?”
The boy, with a smile from ear to ear answered, …

Or …What not to do when you first start out in network marketing.
Let’s be totally honest here. As new network marketers just starting out in the industry we all have made some mistakes. I know I certainly have made my share. That’s just part of the learning curve. As long as we learn from our mistakes and fail forward, we’ll be alright.
So, here are probably the 7 most common mistakes we make as brand new network marketers…
1) Don’t have a Part-time Attitude
It’s certainly okay to build your network marketing business part-time and alongside your regular job in the beginning. What’s not okay, is having a part-time attitude about it. Many new networkers fail because they treat their business like a hobby. This will reflect in your commission check. So, don’t dabble in your business…
Posted by Ilka Flood | Posted in Positive Thinking, Success | Posted on 16-04-2010
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Yep, I feel like a million bucks today.
What a difference a day makes, because yesterday I certainly didn’t feel anywhere close to that. More like a nickel maybe.
Sometimes life, circumstances or people drop a boulder in your way and then sheepishly watch in the woods to see how you handle it.
Well, you have two options …
You either climb over it, or find a way around it. But… under no circumstances do you let that boulder stop you from moving forward.
Besides, …tomorrow is another day. And who knows what it will bring.
I could have gone to bed last night, sucking my thumb and feeling sorry for myself, …
Posted by Ilka Flood | Posted in Network Marketing, Success | Posted on 13-04-2010
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Woody has been living in our backyard for a couple of years now. Every spring he would show up and peck on our trees and on occasion also on our house. Which especially made my husband mad. Not just because of the horrible noise, (woodpeckers sound like little sledgehammers), but also because of the damage. Our neighbors actually had to redo the top of their chimney because of Woody’s pecking.
Actually, I found him pretty annoying too, until, earlier this year when I stumbled upon his “perfect work of art” in our backyard. Looks like Woody has decided to move in permanently with us and built his home in one of our old tree stumps.
I stood in total amazement when I saw the perfect circle. I even went as far as to
Posted by Ilka Flood | Posted in Network Marketing, Success | Posted on 12-04-2010
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While browsing around the BetterNetworker.com site over the weekend I found a blog post I had posted there about a year ago. I thought it would be a good one to share with all of you today to start the week off on the right foot.
Lessons From A Blender
As I strolled into the kitchen that morning for my second cup of coffee, I saw my husband put huge chunks of ice into the blender for his chocolate shake. I looked at him and the first words out of my mouth were, …
One of my “Better Bunch” friends challenged me to write a blog post every day this week, Monday through Friday.
I’m always up for a challenge, but let me tell you, that was not easy. I had to put some things on the back burner, make some sacrifices and really stretch my limits, but in the end I did get it done.
“Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced every day.” _ Jim Rohn
When I told my husband about this challenge on Monday, the first words out of his mouth were …
Success doesn’t come from always succeeding.
It’s not a straight shot to the top. Just like in life itself, there are peaks and valleys, ups and downs. It takes hard work, dedication, perceverance, and yes, failure too. But as long as you fail forward, believe in yourself and never let doubt creep in, you’ll be alright.
Someone shared this quote from Michael Jordan with me…
Michael Jordan
June 21, 1991
Wins First NBA Championship
“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot …
With A Little Help From My Friends
My Mom always told me, …”Tell me who you hang out with and I tell you who you are”.
There’s also another saying that goes something like this … “Surround yourself with successful people and you yourself will become successful”.
If you want to learn how to become a champion golfer, you hang around people like Tiger Woods.
If you want to learn how to become a top notch business person, you hang with the likes of a Donald Trump.
If you want to become a world class network marketer you hang out at Jason Better’s blog and BetterNetworker.com.
And that’s exactly what I have done.
As a network marketer we wear many different hats and we have to accomplish many different tasks. Especially if we market on the internet, there’s just so much to learn. We can’t be experts in everything, so the next best thing is